I know women always talking bout size this and size that, some will say...it's not the size of the boat - ocean/motion crap, while other will tell you flat on you face..."nuh waan nuh short short man".
So this blog is intended to clear up and get a general view of what the ladies think...ladies...would be be less attracted to a man you've been dating for months, when you find out he's not packing? and also...is that a requirement of yours, a well sized man? and finally, if you had to get it too BIG or too little...which would you take?
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some girls might say its all about size but there are those that feel that its all about what you do with what you have. I'm one of the rare ones that feel its all about the connection that you have with the person, sex doesn't mean anything big or small unless your doing it with someone special.
just my crazy point of view :)
nice topic sean!!
The size doesn't really matter to me, why?? cuz if i had a guy who could do a great great great foreplay then by the time he gets to usin his tool, i wud b so orgasmic that it wudnt really mattter., cuz for me the foreplay seperates the men from the boys!!!
but i if i had to choose i wud want it smaller than bigger!!
Rensipoo weh u seh..more play for the foreplay?? yuh hear dat yutes..I hope di man dema tek notes (i got ma notepad)
Rens, I agree wid u completely. foreplay is of otmost importance cus dat can set d pace fi d real show. From the souns of u, I'd say I'd win u ova wid foreplay cus u soun like ur really into getting ur engine warmed up before the big race.
ryan.......bring on the whipp cream strawberries, the oils n the dark n we whave a winner!!
cuz some women (like meself sumtimes)dont get an orgasm with a mans tool, wether it big or small. so a lot of foreplay goes a long way, the rest of it is just for the guy!! cuz as we know ladies, they always come no matter wat!!
sexpert!!!! thats me lol
**disclaimer***
E.V.B
I WISHHHHHHHHHHHH
LOL
If wishes were horses, beggars wud ride...do u wanna be a rider or wat ;) trust mi Rens. jus foreplay alone cus I'd like 2 see wat effects I cud evoke...thats where my pleasure come from
work it like a factory.......
Ok let me try to be as HONEST as possible size does matter no matter wath we say, we always shy away from the question but we know feeling is really good...lol but seriously size counts
evb
u sound like u want start sumting but i bet u cudnt do it cuz it tek maaaddddd patience, maybe even hours!!!
Rens, u cud atleast gimmi d benefit of the doubt but u'd be surprized that I can go longer than u think...hrs? try me...we're talkin bout the talent that I was blessed wit from God here n u'd prolly wanna give up cus u cant handle the pressure, I'd make u wanna explode
Well for this blog I think I'll go the anonymous route but again Ryan Sean, you've picked a winner with the topics.For the person who says the foreplay is the key thing n then the sex comes second...I don't disagree but jeez wha happen when u reach u peak in the foreplay n is real ting time now n........ then u jus reach a "blank spot" where u feel movement but u not really sure where...dat goin to be a rude awakening...literally. I dont want a guy who goin to touch my tripe n tickle my spine from the inside but still when u watch di likkle movie dem n si a white guy turn up wid him likkle worm the first thing that comes to mind is EWWWW then HAHAHA n it jus comes out involuntarily so I guess thatz enuff testimony to say that I'm one of the onez who considers size to be very important in a relationship...dont think it would work out for very long if the guy not cutting it lengthwise...either that or the amount o bun him get woulda cause a growth spurt in him pants :-) CC
So Anonymous, since size is such a intergal part of intercourse n size is relative, wat size really works for u cus I've heard storys were some yutes aint packin but dem a hit the rite spot n wat wud be the result if a nigga was hittin the spot d right way but him nah pack
Bottom line "Make do with what u have".
However, can what you have please your mate?
We are all different therefore if you want a great love life Communicate..tell him or her what u like and how to please u fully.
Dont be afraid ladies ur Oragasm depends on it.
lol... these comments are funny... foreplay is really important & the thing is men know this, but they're soo selfish sumtimes they just ignore it... ryan y r men so selfish??... anyhow personally size doesn't matter to me, but i hav a big buddy radar, i only talk to guys of a certain height or weight which just happens to fall under the big buddy range & when then i step out of my box of out side looks... they still have a big buddy... so, i honestly couldn't say if i'd be happy with a small buddy man cuz i neva had one!
Thatz what I'm saying...I think in that sense I'm such an unfair person I probably wouldn't give him the opportunity to "touch that spot" ...sorry :-( What size is good ...normal sizee :-)...cliche but 6 in.is good for me.CC
BIG BUDDY RADAR?? lol...rass...how dat work melly?? it beep when u buck a big buddy man? or it vibrate?
your'e tell me you can know if a man have a big buddy, by his height and weight??? eeh melly?
well ryan... genetically, mawga man hav the biggest buddy (just like how mawga gyal hav the phattest pums)... ahh... my radar vibrates when i near a big buddy dats sexable... & no it neva vibrate near u yet ryry
LOL...lol..rofl....melly a wah u a try do?? diss me pon me blog..nuh mek me talk up d tings enuh!!! LOL..anyway..melissa, don't worry i dont' want anything on you to vibrate around me..suh we gud...can any other female attest to this notion of knowing if a man is packing..jus by looking??
Men of a certain height normally have a good size to work with..Wen dem too short or punny BEWARE...
Works for me....
yup!... mawga man or man ova 6ft... big tings poppin!!
Just a quick question or maybe ryan can do a blog on it, do women prefer length or girth?
well mr. k'riq i adore both, but if i had to chose, I would say length - I get more from it when I feel in it my belly bottom (call me a pain freak or watever) and YES size DOES MATTER - to me, the bigger the better!!
very good question actually...tricky but good nonetheless . No to the long scrawny stick so I'd go for the girth over the length personally.CC
ok... ahmm... mawga man hav girth too as well of the length, u can also judge the girth by the shape of his head... so, i usually get both as well.
i'd say girth too cuz pain is not in my book?? sex is all abt pleasure so i dont si why mi muss buss up mi likke chun wit nuh big buddy!! a regular 6" will do!!
melly, ur life perfect eeh? How come your cacky de alwasy perfect so? Mind yuh a peep pon di man dem before yuh look dem innuh. rofl
just cool k'riq... every odda ting man cause problem with, the least i can do is ensure that the sex is right.
LOL @ K'riq..dat me a seh enuh yute - her ting jus eva sort out...suh melly dat mean seh ur ideal man, is mawga big head man??
So melly, wah di turn-over rate wid your man dem? How long yuh relationship dem last?
ryry... mawga man head normally big cuz dem mawga.
k'riq... it depends on the seasons. during breeding season i don't keep man for long, breeding season is when everybody seems to be pregnant, neither during summer or career season, career season is september october when the new school year start & u decide to further urself so u don't need a partner to distract u & i think we all know about summer season... so they can range anywhere between 2months to 2years... ahh whats ur height & weight stats, i'd like to analyse ur buddy size :-)
Sorry but mi nuh mawga so mi nah go get nuh good grades from yuh, 6ft 6.5 in, 250lbs
LOL...lol..rofl..melly yuh nuh play enuh...lol...BREEDING SEASON??? are you eve human?? lol..yuh hear that ladies, stay away from men during the dreaded "breeding season" lol
k'riq... u play basketball??
So you telling that this is what I am good at, basketball? From ideal dick size to basketball? rofl
Melly yuh nuh easy innuh, yeah mi play basketball for fun, yuh scouting?
lol..aye bwoy this is hilarious...but i am going to give my inexperienced opinion...dont have any 'buddy radar' or anything like that..i dont think size matters because if ur in a good relationship with someone you love and both of you understand each other then the sex is gonna be more about intimacy than just plain sex...becuz the way i see it..if it is only about the sex and the size of it..he can have a big penis...dont know how to use it..and u right back at square one...or he has a small one and can rock ur world same way...so i think its just about the relationship.
Also..if u searching for the everlasting big one..u gonna always be searching and screwing the whole world..
no... already have one... i only talk to athletes (need to be able to keep up the energy), it used to be footballers but basketballers are taller... i think u & i both kno what i realized about u... but u too heavy... hav fun & focus on the foreplay ok!
you might as well move to africa or beg one a dem craft vendors build one that u think is the 'right size' and call it a day
nuh worry urself yah melly, i dont see any foul play in foreplay (depending on to what extent).
Never had any complaints;)
Not one ah dem yute who just jump on for a nut, and jump off like caveman rofl
ahh metalmouth, i don't have any problems at all with my sex life... i kno what i want & i get what i want, ALWAYS... don't need to move to africa, don't even need to move outside of Kingston, Jamaica cuz i only like Kingston men.
i think u need to look outside the box with respect to ur relationship ( even though this blog wasn't about relationships, it was about buddy size)... yes intimacy is important, it is very important, i love cuddling & talking for hours & extended foreplay & my man knows that & we do it most of the time, but at the same time me & him hav very demanding jobs & if we go for couple weeks without anything & finally manage to get a 1 hour break, we goin need to sort it out proper & small buddy not workin it proper there... u need to be versatile to sustain a good relationship, small buddies are not versatile & if u keep that 1 track mind it sounds to me that ur a likely candidate for bun... would u forgive ur cheating partner??
suh melly, yuh prejudice against country man?? :(...yuh nuh hear seh a we have up the big bamboo?? lol..LOL
Size only matters if you know how to use it.
ryan, when i get back to jamaica i gonna update my blogspot blog & let u kno whats up... otherwise u can read my msnspace blog... but no, country-come-town man bore me easily.
Mawga man big head?
Unno low mi name nuh star!
First of all, size does matter if ur on the the giving end :) cuz the sheer terror in her eyes is enuff 2 boost ego.
She's like 'Ohh shit, wtf ave i gotten myself into, this will hurt like a mofo'
*Rens PAIN IS PLEASURE (and pressure burst pipes)
The reason Im not big on foreplay with most girls is cuz Im a selfish germophobe. I mean do I really want to be running my tongue all over her body? ewwww. Where has her body been?
CSI miami shows that dna juice never comes off. So that one nite stand at ATI wid dat drunk gay beast is actually wat u chewing on.
There are a few girls that I do try with (a few!) but Im not so good at it cuz I dont practice that much.
Me just cant deal wid all di licking and sucking (not there) and slurping star.
Dats why i like girls who dont like sex.
But if its rens mi will try mi best.
david..lol..rofl..lol..LOL..bap bap!!! (GAY Beast from ATI...yute WTF!!)..lol..man a seh bun a foreplay..get to the point!!
david!!!... ohmigosh!!
by gay Beast from ATI I meant that thick bisexual girl who has both sperm residue and vaginal effluent on ever part of her body excepting her knees and upper lip (and dats just cuz she uses knees pads and listerine fairly often)
Mi good! Unno keep watever stds floating around in unno veins.
Weh seh u rylenol? What is beautiful??
I always knew there was something weird about u david..hmmm...interesting...
ryan dah topic ya kinda difficult. but anyways, does size really matter? well...no really. but if it way toooo big mi a go ketch mi fraid cuz mi no want nutten buss mi up, and if it too small it nah go mek it cuz if mi want sumting tickle mi, mi would go get two feather. so i guess a good size is required. di only ting dat should be small between mi and di man is mi UKKU and mi last name!!!
di bredda dem must also know how fi use wha dem have..wine wid it while u inna we and ting, change up di speed level and ting.
on another thing, me personally, sex alone cant sort mi out..nuff foreplay haffi deh deh. di man dem who a talk bout dem no have di time fi dat or whatevea, unuh too selfish. unuh cant expect we fi plz unuh and unuh no want go all out fi plz we. and foreplay no mean u haffi go oral and ting.
but den again, if unuh cant sort we out proper wid di waist alone, unuh betta resort to di face!!
david baby!
u know i wud try nething wit u n we can always work on the foreplayyyyyyyyy!!!
u nuh haffi lick eveywhere u can skip some parts!!
hahaa
lol...no wonder u decided to stay anonymous..some strong words there man...
ppl, mek mi talk di tings dem. size doe have ntn fi do wid height, me short n mi nah brag but am packin (check the references)lol. Anonymous u theory dem flawed unnu need fi go do a survey. unnu tek buss zn, the way fi kno if a man a pack in length is fi check him hands..not him foot...or unnu fren Melly n carry her everywhere wid unnu. Widow, mi cyah help u lol!! Anonymous...take my digits 865 **** *wink wink* I think Melly is a cock watcher; she sees views u pants first LOL!! Metalmouth needs counselin...buddy counseelin (take her number Melly)
Si Bad D, u jus want a girl that likes to talk?! no buddy? u need counsellin to yute
wah u seh Anonymouse yute u doe east pussy, u west it? lol
man sound confident iyah...mek dem know me doops...NO NO NO NO WAAAAYYYY!!! suh it seems like size doesn't matter to mr.anonymous's "ladies" after all...i wonder if him and the 1st person who posted can hook up??? weh yuh seh? me a tun d ting inna e-harmony..lol..LOL
LOL..bwoy E.V.B!! yuh know wah d man mean...rofl..lol..it's just a simple typ-o..
And that's another thing....men who always talk bout dem anaconda this and anaconda dat and when u check it out is nothing more than a lizard.....I believe it's not the size either but if you don't have a good size one you better know who fi work you tongue....:)
there is no way to tell who is packing what but all I know is the first time i buck a tall sex guy wid him likkle cocky I cry, how a frighten, I never slept wid him or ever answered my phone again....I also had a short fren with what I would call a MANDINGO, that thing was huge....However, the question is does size matter , my answer is HELL YES!!!!!!!....ofcourse it doesnt make a good man, but its the toy with the happy meal... Big up my boyfriend who's been doing me right!!!!!Boom Wuk.....DVN
Well, does size matter,to me size does matter to some extent, I don't want no small thing, mi cant deal with that, its just so boring. I want a good size, and plus some have the size and don't know how to use it. The big one them too hot (I assume). Size does matter but at the same time u got to know how to work it and also know the foreplay cuz size with pain and without pleasure is no fun.
Relinquish, I agree with you, its the worst thing when a dud step to you saying how him can mek u bawl inna bed, so u get the kleenex ready for the bawling session when u check it homeboy only leave u dumbstruck with disappointment... dont talk bout u have anaconda when u have a garden snake, we will love you as long as you know how to work it...DVN
Also, I can love a man but it takes him F@#$!ng me right for me to FALL IN LOVE aka cocky whipped...DVN
The reason I like girls who dont like sex, is cuz no matter how bad or short it is, she's just happy that unno stopping.
So u culda fast like EVB she quited content and I quote "Sex is just some shit I have to do".
david!!!
wat kinda thing is that to say!!! nething u do u shud do it to the best of ur ability (sorrry to quote me high skool motto but it rings tru!!)
but if u goin touch me u better work on ur foreplay n then u can get wat u want!!
lol
but u didnt mean that rite? :)
sex shud b stimulating, sensual n not a chore or a quick means to an end, a woman shud b able to mek har guy feel good n he shud def return the favor.
n if she hapy u soon stop then sumting wrong!! tek pause!! cuz she shud want to go ON N ON N ON like a energizing bunny till she run outta orgasm n her toes curl for so long that it stiff n she cant move her limbs!!
I'd like to feel like that one day (to go ON N ON N ON like a energizing bunny till she run outta orgasm n her toes curl for so long that it stiff n she cant move her limbs!!) Ahhhhh dreaming....
re: baddavid post: girls say that when they are not interested in having sex with YOU. Every girl have a lil nympho in them as long as dem buk di right man.
P.S. I will only say I dont to a guy who gets my heart and brain going but my body is yet to catch up....DVN
relin...
so mi seh to but i'm sorry to say i havent felt that way yet!
ive gotten the "almost"
baddavid yuh nuh play enuh yute, but on a real to how d ting running now, the kinda mentality some of these girls have, some a dem just want a quick fuck to move on to the next guy - some a dem dont care if him big or small. dem just want know seh dem did fck dat yute..sad...but oh so TRUE!!
One thing with all that "shaky" orgasm nature; you can't tell the difference if is an earth-quake, a heart-attack or if she going mutate!
Size does matter! thank god I'm comfortable with mine so my partner is equally pleased.
Laud god Relinquish, u open up a whole nada can a worms now. Rens, doe worry bout Bad D, he's only doin wat he kno how to do n that is make girls cry...cus dem nah get it rite lol!! dwl @ Relinquish re: to Bad D (see wah mi a talk bout yute!)Rens,I told u bout dat yute. oh n Relinquish, wat side a d world u on?
it look like u going to have to turn this into E-harmony or Ryharmony. LoL. I must admit that i've had the "almost" (ahhh that was great). And u know i must say that was with an older man. So i suggest for tomorrow topic..or monday..whenever...older men younger girls (or better yet "does old broom really sweep betetr'.....lol).
P.s evb i'm in kingston
I CATEGORICALLY DISAGREE WITH BADDAVID'S WOMENTALITY. A GIRL WHO DOESNT LIKE SEX IS A GIRL WHO HASNT EXPERIENCED A REAL GOOD ENCOUNTER. CHECK DI LEVELS, MOST OF THE GIRLS SEH DEM DONT LIKE IT BECAUSE IT PAINFUL.THS IS BECAUSE OF MEN LIKE BADDAVID WAH JUST JUMP ON AND 'RAM OUT DI HOLE', BUSS A NUT AND HIM GOOD. THIS HAS BECOME THE NORM FOR HER SO SHE DOESNT SEE THE BIG DEAL IN OPENING HER LEGS JUST TO FEEL PAIN.
THERE IS NO WAY I COULD ENJOY SEX BECAUSE THE WOMAN IS BAWLING. BAWLING DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU DO A GOOD WORK AND MAYBE THE 'WHAT DID I GET MYSELF INTO' LOOK THAT U MENTIONED SEEING IN HER EYES IS REALY 'OH DAMN, CANT BELIEVE I GOT MYSELF INTO ANOTHER SELFISH BASTARD'S BED' ROFL
NUFF MAN FEEL SEH IF THE WOMAN NUH CURL UP AND BAWL WHEN DEM DONE DAT MEAN SEH DEM NEVA DO NUTTN. THERE HAVE BEEN ENCOUNTERS THAT I HAVE DONE THAT TO WOMEN (NOT INTENTIONALLY) AND IT DOES NOTHING FOR MY EGO CUZ I HAVE T BE THERE COMFORTING THEM.
Yo ... straight up ... no man nu wah feel like dem hood likkle ... serious ladies ... yo dont run dem joke deh wid men .. thats the worse ting u coulda eva do to a man (imply seh him hood likkle) ... personally if a gal tell mi dat mi feel seh mi hood woulda shribble up and drop off ... yep! fi real man mi nah lie. Personally, my hood nu big inno but it nu likkle either u zimmie ... mi know how fi work it so mi nu have no problem in a dem area deh ... but a nu every man have big hood and a nu every man know wah fi do apart from bowing in order fi aid in pleasing a woman if they are not fire-hose-ically blessed. Mi nah go seh the woman dem mus fake nu orgasim now inno ... but mi nu know still ... probly unno can jus try steer unno man into the direction of pleasing u in sexually in different ways (other than bowng of course) mi nu know ... unno woman know how fi work unno head fi get wah unno want. The nex ting ... three words ... foreplay foreplay foreplay ... this ting is very important in sex trust mi ... y memba mi tell u ... YOUTHS , u see if unno know seh unno all easy fi bruk ... memba!!! Forepay is what u need to do more. U see when u done suck off the breast dem and a whisper in her ear slowly and nibble pon ber funny bone fi all a good while till she wet so till she nu know wah fi do!!! Memba all u haffi do nex a gi her literally two stab outt u hood and she cum quicker dan a race car ... memba mi tell u ... big hood, medium hood, small hood, extra small hood .. any whicj kinda hood u have jus remember these three words foreplay foreplay foreplay... lata peeps
So wait why Kriq a lash out pan me so? Some man love lick out pan ppl eeh and den dem over endorse di foreplay ting. 1+1=2
I not saying no to foreplay a nuh, Im saying i dont do it to any and any one. ewww (just the thought). She has to be worth it.
Check di levels yute, females give bun so more time you think is you one and is 3 a unnno.
3 guys, she lies, aids kill.
I not into a rush to run my tongue repeatedly over skin and crevices.
I may be a bad lover (except if you worth it, but mi naah StI medications.
david, i think if u don't want to catch a disease, u just shouldn't have sex any at all ok... i'm so appalled when i read ur posts, i honestly feel sorry for the poor girls that have suffered at ur cold thoughtless buddy... i don't even know what to say, i'm just so disappointed. (sorry i beel kinda emotional lately)
jermz... the general concensus is size doesn't matter, however, a big buddy is a nice little extra. just keep doin what u doin cuz u soun like a nice little loverboy *wink*
relenquish... it is also my experience that men who boast are always the lamest, thats y i luv shy guys & y i wonder for many years, "does elephant man really have the anaconda weh longa??"
ry... new blog now plz
David get a girl... the blown up ones, a real one dis time. Melly d ppl dem nu done wid dis yet so in d mean time It cud be nice if u buss wi can a nex saucey topic plz.
Rens, we shud converse some more
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