Yes..the food item we all love to eat...but hate to get BUN!!!
Yea..so would you forgive your man/woman if he/she cheated? I mean i know all of us gnna jump and say "Hell No" but on a real give it some thought, put yourself in that situation...would you? would you be willing to give up all you've worked to build on one mistake? after all , what makes us human is out ability to make mistakes.
So what is BUN really?, some of my coworkers and I were talking about this topic earlier today, and we came to the conclusion that BUN isn't just a woman/man having sex with a person of the opposite sex - it's doing something that if your partner found out you did with another person, would make them mad or upset - so even sneaking off to the movies with a next man/woman is BUN....going to parties with a next man/woman is BUN.....sneaking around lying about your whereabouts and do-a-bouts to your partner is BUN...so would you take him/her back? give him/her a next chance??
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not a cheater my self but.. maybe once.. it depends on the relationship we've built still.
Taylor2nd
Exactly taylor2nd....if it not worth saving then what's the point..let it go and move on to the next cheater (ahhh bwoyy there's no hope really)cause if he did it once he'll do it again. BUN to me goes a little deeper than just sleeping with someone...it's when the emotions get involved.
well.. personally i wudnt think twice becuz am a man.. jus imajin my girl a give a next man my 'ting'.. HELL NO YUTE!! regardless i'd expect forgiveness if i did, such is life tho. I'd probably forgive one a these days becuz i'v done it so much ;)
Well my answer is NO!!! If the relationship was worth saving then him shoulda dam well and save it!
After giving this topic much thought, I can safely say yes - IF i had a lover and he cheated I would forgive, based on the fact the if I cheated I would want the same treatment..but 2 strikes and he would be OUT!!
m-taye i got four letters for you....WWJD!! (what would Jesus do) - he would forgive ...
i guess it all depends on the foundation that the relationship has and the things i have invested in the relationship. but if the relationship ment anything at all to him, y would he go and cheat?? i mean excluding the case whereby it was a one nite stand or when temptation exceeded his control, if he's having an issue in the relationship, y not talk about it instead of turning to sumone??
i was listening to ragashanti this morning on 93.30 and a caller said that if u have a good man, u a go share him eventually. i guess cuz woman a go put dem self infront a him and try get him cuz dem see wha u see inna him. and man dun weak aready, compared to woman.
once a cheater always a cheater, especially if he cheated the first time and did not get caught, he will want to do it again and again. cuz i guess not getting caught adds a little excitement to the whole deed.
bwoy mi no know, man fi jus undastand dem self and know what dem have a yard
It really depends on the relationship we have and how she ended up cheating. Any woman can slip and fall on a dick so maybe then...what the hell am i saying?
At this stage in my life HELL FUCKING NO...once i even smell that u cheating it is time for you to move on.
If anything is worth hanging around for then i would play the game too, cheat and pretend like i am not *Smile*
Yes, that's right, Jesus would forgive....but I'm not Jesus, neither is my cheating lover, which is why he cheated in the first place. But since u brought it up, I would eventually forgive, but the relationship would still have to end at the point of cheating... life is too risky...males should be more careful, and females too...stop the sleeping around on ur girl/boyfriend, and even the sleeping around in general.
This bun ting is always a very heated topic n society socialize us to believe that wen women cheat it is wrong n wen men cheat it can be justified. "one pussy kill cocky" who will ago by commenting that they agree? Me personal, maybe it is that I am too open minded or maybe it is that I have serious trust issues but if I find out dat my oman ceheat mi wuda vex but mi wuda get ova it. If I cheated then I wud expect her to do the same.
It is argued dat man cyah ave one oman n like Najy seh, good man affi share so unnu tell me now how oman ago frowns wen man a considerate n carin bout another famale's feelings
everybody cheats in a relationship esp. if it surpasses a year... I AM A CHEATER BY GENETICS, however, I won't ever disrespect my man, so if my man is on the northside... I keep in contact with dudes on the southside.... If my man speak English...I will talk to a dude who only speaks Arabic...won't ever talk to anyone in our surroundings...
Anyways, the question is would I forgive, The answer is yes, I've done that before and it has been my best relationship to date, but it just that the realtionship has to be worth it and the understanding that trust is going to have to built from scratch again...
However, if I know I'm dating someone who has a cheating track recorder like myself, I would call it quits, but forgive and forget at the same time.
Ms. Anonymous is a "CHEATER BY GENETICS" what does that mean Miss. A
Cheater by genetics- I have no reason to cheat but its what I do, I can snap my fingers and curl my toes just like my dad...my dad is a cheater, so am i, so is my sis, my bros and cousins...We love the ones we're with but theres always someone lurking , doesn't have to be sexual but it's definitely flirtacious at the very least with potential to become intimate...
We never get caught but very upfront with the person we are cheating with...we don't complain about our relationship to this person because it's good probably great. WE HAVE NO REASON TO CHEAT BUT WE DO.
We dont have any issues as far as self confidence, self worth or baggage from previous relationships, We are not doing it to get back at someone, We are not doing it for a thrill (although that comes with the package)>>>It's just what cheaters by genetics do<<<
However, if this is posing a problem in our realtionship we will forget the person on the side and move along to the next, while still oving the one we are with...
I would love to say that this is my theory but it's not. I was actually evaluated :>)
no wonder u wish to remain "Anonymous" cus u cud very well be my girlfren lol!! tru yah babes, doe reveal u superhero identity
Yes Ryan , Interesting Topic , well personally i believe that cheating has become a commmon staple in relationship now a days , it hurst but its the truth . to the answer ...no i would not tlk back my B.F./Man , if he cheated , why cause i would annoy him by never believin a word him says ... so it would just strt a whole heep a trouble n stress if we stayed togeda ....so it would make more sense to ended the relationship .....plus cheating is not a mistake....you do it because you want to fulfill your needs, you could careless about what we have so there is no point in rekindling nuttin .Well thts my view .
I say... when i'm in a relationship I give my all. Yes men, I said it! I am what you all consider to be the ideal woman. I am a woman in public, and a pleaser in the bedroom. I am not needy nor am I clingy. I spend quality time with my man, but not enough to make him get tired. I am a very independant, sophisticated, caring, and loving person. I am the type of woman that will get home from work after a long tiring day, and just knowing that my man may or may not have had a long one himself, I will be ready for him when he arrives. Meaning... I will have a nice candlelit dinner awaiting him. I will give him a nice backrub while he eats.I will run him a nice bath, or rub his back while he showers. I also take great pleasure in making sure that his face is tight, so if he needs me to squeeze a blackhead for him, or pull a hair root, that's what i'll do. I'll even play dress up to spark things up a little. Now I know some of you may be saying, WHAT! Trust me, as long as I know my man is happy and he reciprocate the same we don't have a problem. So to answer your question... NO. I would not forgive my man if he steps out on our relationship. If you want to just date, just date. If you make a decision to be in a committed relationship, then stay committed. So for a man to cheat on me, obviously he wasn't getting something at home he needed. If he finds that elsewhere, then that's where he needs to be. And as far as the foundation we've built, it would NEVER be the same after.
thats deep "~V~"..real deep...i think i almost felt a tear fall. But on a real i get what ur saying and i'm not trying to justify men or women cheating, but u know ppl do dumb shit ..and i think some things are worth fighting for....my 2 cents...
Thats right Sean, some things are worth fighting for. If you are in a relationship with someone you really love then it's worth fighting your temptations and not giving into the urge that will ultimately defile your relationship. The problem isn't forgiving.....it's forgetting.
well once is not with my fren or sum big drama, i would forgive. i've been the cheater, cheated & cheatee so i kno all angles of the game. i don't fully understand y men cheat when they hav a good woman like myself & ~V~, but it happens, sumtimes u just have to look at the situation & decide for uself what u both can live with.
If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you...and you have put your all into the reationship you are already in...they mus not be puttin the same into the relationship then you are. Whats the point in trying to forgive & forget that they cheated? The done the deed they no they gonna get found out otherwise they would keep themselves loyal to their partner? They jus gona keep cheatin for the thrill. But no i would not forgive no man who cheat on me!
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